Open Post to Blue Shield of California Health Care

I’m quite sure I’m not the Blue Shield of California ‘member of the month.’ Since I was diagnosed with breast cancer at a young age, the surgeries, medications, tests and doctor visits since then must have reached millions of dollars. In the US we’re extremely lucky to have access to some of the best health care in the world. As…

breast cancer survivor

I’m quite sure I’m not the Blue Shield of California ‘member of the month.’ Since I was diagnosed with breast cancer at a young age, the surgeries, medications, tests and doctor visits since then must have reached millions of dollars.

In the US we’re extremely lucky to have access to some of the best health care in the world. As a breast cancer survivor, I count on the latest technology, testing and research, and rely on the ability to choose (with my medical team) what will keep me alive to see my boys graduate. Unfortunately, the health care industry is a billion dollar business that seems to be more concerned with profits and annual revenue than providing affordable and easily accessible treatment for their members.

breast cancer survivor

I have a top tier Blue Shield of California PPO plan at a significant monthly cost, and still have to pay out of pocket for many tests and medications each month, on top of my (expensive) monthly payment.

What I don’t expect is to fight Blue Shield of California for coverage that they are legally obligated to provide.

The Women’s Health and Cancer Rights Act (WHCRA) helps protect many women with breast cancer who choose to have their breasts rebuilt (reconstructed) after a mastectomy. Mastectomy is surgery to remove all or part of the breast. This federal law requires most group insurance plans that cover mastectomies to also cover breast reconstruction. It was signed into law on October 21, 1998. The United States Departments of Labor and Health and Human Services oversee this law.

I was recently scheduled for a revision to my double mastectomy, and two days before this scheduled surgery (on February 4th, International World Cancer Day), I was notified that Blue Shield of California denied this surgery.  Obviously there was much anxiety and stress preparing for this significant surgery, and this denial felt more upsetting since I knew this was a direct violation of The Women’s Health and Cancer Rights Act.

five year breast cancer survivor

I had two choices; reschedule this surgery and let my doctors office handle it or fight this denial. I had not only been mentally preparing for this surgery, but Hot Hubby and I had spent weeks logistically preparing for this surgery. So I decided to fight. I was mad. I was mad I had cancer in the first place. I was mad I had to have a double mastectomy to remove my womanhood. I was mad I had to have a revision to correct this surgery. I was mad this would be my 10th surgery/procedure in 5 years. I was mad my boys were again worried that mom was going in for surgery. But I was mostly mad that my healthcare company…. who I pay (a shit ton of money to) each month to protect my health, was rejecting me. I felt completely abandoned by my healthcare provider. I was also mad for other women, who perhaps might not be aware of their healthcare rights, and have received a similar letter denying them coverage for something they are entitled to under federal law.

I had exactly 24 hours before my surgery was scheduled and I decided I was all-in to fight for this denial to be overturned. I realized the normal appeals channel would not work for me in my timeframe; I needed a radical approach. I was able to track down the name of every member of the Blue Shield of California leadership team (the internet is a wonderful thing!) figured out their email configurations, and sent each member of the executive team this letter below.

blue shield of california complaint letter

Almost immediately I received personal responses from five Blue Shield of California executives expressing concern and offering to ‘pass this along to the correct channels’ to help resolve. I had their attention. For the next 6 hours, I worked relentlessly via email, and with Matt B, the (extremely helpful and knowledgeable) patient liaison who worked with me, the Blue Shield MD (who denied the surgery without knowing me, my body, my medical history or the reason this surgery was medically necessary) and my Dr. ( who knows my body intimately and has seen it from the inside many times), to facilitate a peer-to-peer call to discuss my case and why it was medically necessary.

Finally, my surgery was approved fourteen hours before I was scheduled to check-in at the hospital.

I needed to quickly shift gears to prepare my mind and body for yet another invasive surgery, and mentally regroup.

breast cancer surgery
Ready to get home and recover. Again.

But I couldn’t shake this. I was still mad. I was mad this was so difficult. I was mad for other breast cancer survivors who have had their revision surgery denied, and perhaps just accepted this as another horrible part of cancer. I was mad for the women who wouldn’t even have the first idea that they could even fight this. I was mad for women who didn’t have the time or luxury to dedicate a whole entire day to fighting for their rights.

I sent this email to each member of the Blue Shield of California leadership team who responded to me.

blue shield of california complaints

A few of their executives sent a cursory reply thanking me for bringing it to their attention etc. However here are 9 things I’d like Blue Shield of California to know:

  1. My breast cancer was not elective. In fact, when I was diagnosed it was the worst day of my life.
  2. I should not have to fight for procedures and treatments that are medically necessary for my survival.
  3. I am protected by a federal law and should not have to quote the law to my healthcare provider in order to get my coverage approved.
  4. I worry for other women who may not have the energy or know-how to fight for their rights in a David and Goliath situation.
  5. It turns out that some color photos were all that was needed to get this surgery approved immediately; instead of sending out a straight denial letter prompting immediate anxiety, perhaps send out a “pending for further information” letter.  It seems a little more humane.
  6. Matt B, the gentleman who helped me navigate this under the clock, was incredible and showed me care and empathy when I needed it. You should give him a raise. We need more people like Matt B being the face of healthcare instead of an impersonal denial letter.
  7. I appreciate you correcting this ‘glitch’ however, at the risk of sounding cynical, you do stand to save a few hundred thousand dollars for each surgery you deny. I am wondering out loud here… so bear with me… could it be you are actually hoping people don’t fight these denials to get the coverage they are entitled to?  It sure would save you a ton of money.
  8. Please learn from this example of how the system failed and make changes to provide healthcare and communication that is worthy of YOUR friends and family.
  9. I will be needing testing and procedures for the rest of my life. That’s how it looks for me now as a cancer survivor. Please don’t make me fight for my coverage again. I’m tired, and each procedure takes it out of me mentally and physically.
breast cancer revision surgery with blue shield of california
This is me in recovery after my surgery went ahead as planned.

Hopefully you are never in the position to have to fight for your healthcare. However if you’re unsatisfied with the response from your insurance company, or you have an urgent health problem you should contact the agency charged with regulating your plan. These agencies are the DMHC or the CDI.

The easiest way to find out which agency oversees your plan is to call the consumer hotline number for either agency and ask a representative.

The consumer hotline for DMHC is (888) 466 2219.   For CDI it’s (800) 927-4357.

Do you have a nightmare health insurance story?

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Comments

  1. JaMeka
    February 18, 2020

    Wow! The healthcare in our country is so unbelievable! I wish they would prioritize us as humans instead of just another Patient No. XYZ. Kudos for the way you handled this situation, and glad you were able to still do your surgery. Thank you for writing this post, it is going to help and educate A LOT of people.

    1. Samantha
      February 18, 2020

      If people don’t speak up, there will never be improvement… the problem is, people are at their weakest and most vulnerable when they need their healthcare to be there for them… they prodded the wrong mamma bear with this one! ;-

  2. Irma Morales
    February 18, 2020

    OMG, thank you for sharing. I could relate my brother die of Lung Cancer and sometimes I felt helpless because of many reasons one being healthcare. I love you for not only fighting for yourself but for all the ladies going through this. Sam are are a wonderful Mom, Wife, Daughter, Sister and Friend. I am so happy to see you taking care of yourself. Hope to see you soon (Sept) NY

    1. Samantha
      February 18, 2020

      Thank you so much for the kind words Irma. If people don’t speak up, there will never be improvement… the problem is, people are at their weakest and most vulnerable when they need their healthcare to be there for them… they prodded the wrong mamma bear with this one! ;-

  3. Kristine
    February 18, 2020

    Wow this struck a nerve with me today. I am due to have a repeat mammogram Thursday (and likely an ultrasound) and the office called me today to let me know what my financial responsibility is. Huh? You mean my preventative mammogram found something suspicious (again, 3 years in a row) and in order for it to be confirmed not cancer or cancer I have to pay for the next tests? Granted it is only a couple hundred dollars (towards my deductible) and I can say “only” because 1) I have private coverage through my employer and 2) I have a well paying job but now I understand why the poor are severely underserved with healthcare in this country. If I lived paycheck to paycheck I would have to decide if my health was a greater priority over some other need or the needs of my children. Nobody should be forced to make those choices. See, you struck a nerve. Here’s to speedy healing and many healthy years to come! (Despite the insurance companies!)

  4. Kristine
    February 18, 2020

    Wow this struck a nerve with me today. I am due to have a repeat mammogram Thursday (and likely an ultrasound) and the office called me today to let me know what my financial responsibility is. Huh? You mean my preventative mammogram found something suspicious (again, 3 years in a row) and in order for it to be confirmed not cancer or cancer I have to pay for the next tests? Granted it is only a couple hundred dollars (towards my deductible) and I can say “only” because 1) I have private coverage through my employer and 2) I have a well paying job but now I understand why the poor are severely underserved with healthcare in this country. If I lived paycheck to paycheck I would have to decide if my health was a greater priority over some other need or the needs of my children. Nobody should be forced to make those choices. See, you struck a nerve. Here’s to speedy healing and many healthy years to come!

    1. Samantha
      February 18, 2020

      I am sorry you are having to deal with this too. I completely feel the same. I’m outraged for the women who are exhausted, or work during business hours so cannot spend all day on the phone, who are unsure how to navigate and don’t know if they can dispute this…. i fight for all women… this is just a terrible terrible practice. XX

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  • Kristine

    Wow this struck a nerve with me today. I am due to have a repeat mammogram Thursday (and likely an ultrasound) and the office called me today to let me know what my financial responsibility is. Huh? You mean my preventative mammogram found something suspicious (again, 3 years in a row) and in order for it to be confirmed not cancer or cancer I have to pay for the next tests? Granted it is only a couple hundred dollars (towards my deductible) and I can say “only” because 1) I have private coverage through my employer and 2) I have a well paying job but now I understand why the poor are severely underserved with healthcare in this country. If I lived paycheck to paycheck I would have to decide if my health was a greater priority over some other need or the needs of my children. Nobody should be forced to make those choices. See, you struck a nerve. Here’s to speedy healing and many healthy years to come!

    • I am sorry you are having to deal with this too. I completely feel the same. I’m outraged for the women who are exhausted, or work during business hours so cannot spend all day on the phone, who are unsure how to navigate and don’t know if they can dispute this…. i fight for all women… this is just a terrible terrible practice. XX

  • Kristine

    Wow this struck a nerve with me today. I am due to have a repeat mammogram Thursday (and likely an ultrasound) and the office called me today to let me know what my financial responsibility is. Huh? You mean my preventative mammogram found something suspicious (again, 3 years in a row) and in order for it to be confirmed not cancer or cancer I have to pay for the next tests? Granted it is only a couple hundred dollars (towards my deductible) and I can say “only” because 1) I have private coverage through my employer and 2) I have a well paying job but now I understand why the poor are severely underserved with healthcare in this country. If I lived paycheck to paycheck I would have to decide if my health was a greater priority over some other need or the needs of my children. Nobody should be forced to make those choices. See, you struck a nerve. Here’s to speedy healing and many healthy years to come! (Despite the insurance companies!)

  • Irma Morales

    OMG, thank you for sharing. I could relate my brother die of Lung Cancer and sometimes I felt helpless because of many reasons one being healthcare. I love you for not only fighting for yourself but for all the ladies going through this. Sam are are a wonderful Mom, Wife, Daughter, Sister and Friend. I am so happy to see you taking care of yourself. Hope to see you soon (Sept) NY

    • Thank you so much for the kind words Irma. If people don’t speak up, there will never be improvement… the problem is, people are at their weakest and most vulnerable when they need their healthcare to be there for them… they prodded the wrong mamma bear with this one! ;-

  • Wow! The healthcare in our country is so unbelievable! I wish they would prioritize us as humans instead of just another Patient No. XYZ. Kudos for the way you handled this situation, and glad you were able to still do your surgery. Thank you for writing this post, it is going to help and educate A LOT of people.

    • If people don’t speak up, there will never be improvement… the problem is, people are at their weakest and most vulnerable when they need their healthcare to be there for them… they prodded the wrong mamma bear with this one! ;-

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