When RevitaLash invited me to attend their 10th Annual Gayle Brinkenhoff Breast Cancer Research Symposium at City of Hope, I hesitated. Not because I didn’t want to go, but because I knew exactly what walking onto that campus would stir up. The last time I stood there, I was a terrified young mum clutching a folder of appointments like my life depended on it.
Because my life DID depend on it.
Returning now… older, healthy, painfully aware of how close I came to losing everything, was a reminder of what I nearly lost and what I owe to the people who work in rooms like these.
In the Room With the People Who Keep Us Here
I met Dr Michael Brinkenhoff, the founder of RevitaLash, who created the original eyelash serum for his wife, Gayle, to help her feel like herself when she was battling cancer. (sidebar: Gayle and I shared the same oncologist, the legendary Dr. James Waisman, whom I was told people would travel to Mars to see )
I also met his daughter, Dariel Sidney, who leads their global philanthropy with a steady strength. It’s clear her work carries her mother’s legacy forward in a meaningful way.

This annual symposium brings together some of the brightest breast cancer researchers in the world. Sitting in that room with people who actually keep women alive was beyond inspiring. I felt a rush of gratitude that made me want to hug everyone… which obviously I didn’t, because, weird… but the feeling was real.
One thing hit me hard.
Cancer is diagnosed in 20 million people a year. Cancer kills 10 million people a year. Most women who die from breast cancer die because of metastasis.
Spread.
The part we don’t talk about enough.
This year’s symposium theme focused on Metastatic Breast Cancer: understanding it, tracking it, preventing it, and treating it. It felt urgent. It is urgent.

The Revitalash Road to $10 Million
RevitaLash is nearing a huge milestone with almost $10 million given to breast cancer initiatives through their Eternally Pink pledge. A portion of every single purchase goes straight back into research, patient care, and support programs all year long, not just in October. They’ve already contributed more than $9 million since 2008, which is helping fund research that gives women more time, more options, and more hope.
It’s one thing to hear a brand say they “give back”.
It’s another to see, firsthand, that promise in action.
This isn’t a photo op for Dr. B. This is a family that turned their grief into fuel to honor Gayle’s memory by pushing science forward until we have better outcomes for all women.
Touring Hope Plaza and the New Treatment Spaces
After the symposium, we toured the new outpatient building at City of Hope: Hope Plaza. It’s an eight-story glass tower filled with light and built around what patients actually need. The infusion rooms look out over the San Gabriel Mountains through floor-to-ceiling windows, and the whole space feels bright, airy, and, honestly… hopeful.
Everything is designed to make a terrifying experience gentler. The floors are simple to navigate, with lifts opening right into the center so you’re never far from mammography, imaging, or infusion. Even the outdoor spaces feel intentional. The Hope & Healing Park and the sunken garden give patients a place to breathe and regroup when the day feels heavy.
It’s built to soften a journey none of us ever ask to take, and standing there, I literally felt the compassion in every single detail.

We also explored the Positive Image Center, which might be one of the most beautiful ideas I’ve ever seen. It’s a place where patients can walk in feeling depleted and walk out feeling a little more themselves again.
They offer:
- Complimentary haircuts and head shaves
- Custom wig fittings and cuts
- Pre- and post-mastectomy fittings
- Product consultations
- Eyebrow application lessons
- Scarf and head wrap tutorials
- Scalp treatments
RevitaLash supplies unlimited products here to help women improve their brows after treatment. Unlimited. No questions. Just care.
What Every Cancer Patient Needs to Know
One uncomfortable statistic stuck with me from the symposium. Newly diagnosed patients often never hear about clinical trials until it’s too late.
You get your diagnosis.
You’re overwhelmed.
You start treatment.
And maybe later, sometimes years later, you find out there were trials you could have joined right at the start.
We need to change that. We need better education, more visibility, and easier pathways to access. So, if you or someone you love is dealing with breast cancer, please research City of Hope Clinical Trials. You and your loved ones deserve to know every option available.

Why This Hit Me So Personally
Breast cancer isn’t just an October thing for me; it now lives with me constantly. This month alone, I’ve spoken to three friends dealing with diagnoses and scares. It seems to be getting more prevalent. And being in that room, healthy and on the other side of it all, filled me with a quiet gratitude I can’t really put into words.
They don’t know how each patient remembers every single person who touches their life.
They don’t know that a warm smile in a waiting room lives with you for years. Dr. James Waisman has no idea how his personal response to my desperate email offering to ‘squeeze me in’ was the lifeline I needed to grasp that day.
They don’t know that their research papers aren’t abstract ideas; they are the reason my children still have a mum.
I wish I’d been brave enough to say that out loud when I had them all in one room.
If You Love Someone, Remind Them
If someone you love hasn’t had their mammogram, remind them today.
If you’ve been putting off your own appointment, please go. I’m able to mother my boys and live my life because my breast cancer was detected early enough.
Research matters.
Access matters.
Education matters.
And support from brands like RevitaLash truly is life-changing for 20 million people each year.

Thank you, RevitaLash. Thank you for inviting me. Thank you for honoring Gayle in a way that keeps countless women alive. And thank you, Dari and Dr Brinkenhoff, for spending time with me, sharing your story, and showing me what generous compassion looks like.
If you want to learn more about their work, their philanthropy, or how to support the Road to $10 Million and beyond, you can explore their Eternally Pink initiative here
I’m grateful, truly grateful, to be here to share their story.
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